New Beginnings

Alright so I have not kept up my blog like I had intended to......or at all for that matter. But I am rededicating myself to the cause.....

So here is what is going on most recently in our lives.

Last August, in a bit of a spur of the moment decision, Seth began working with his dad in insurance and things are going well. The decision was made after some discussion of what would happen with current employment if he were to be deployed. (We were in a deployable year, so the question seemed more pertinent now that it had previously.) The idea had apparently been on both of our minds, and so when the discussion came up, we were way ahead on coming to a decision together. We felt that it was an answer to prayers and concerns about the possibility of deployment. Action was taken, and wouldn't you know, a week after things were under way, we got the fateful call. Seth's unit was a year out and officially "on alert." In other words; The military is required to give 365 days notice, before actual departure, so that affairs can be put in order. Their 365 day notice was given. Last Sunday, Seth and I attended a "Yellow Ribbon Meeting." It was 8 hours of sitting and listening to people tell us how to get ready for deployment, and how to support your soldier, before, during, and after a deployment. And how to get all our affairs in order; health insurance, life insurance, wills, finances, power of attorney, bla, bla bla. Amidst the death by powerpoint presentations, it was also depressing. BUT!!! We are trying to stay positive. We knew this was a possibility way back when he joined......I mean he DID join in wartime. And that this is what he was training to do. And there is always a chance (a very small one, but still a glimmer of one) that he may not go. So no need to stress over something that may not happen. And we know that Seth did the right thing by joining. There has never been the hint of hesitation on that topic with either of us EVER. We knew this is what we needed to do. Therefore, the Lord will watch over us. Seth is way awesome about it. He feels honored for the opportunity and feels that there is a lot of good that he can do. And I can't disagree. Seth is a positive influence where ever he goes and with whomever he meets.

As for me, I am keeping myself busy. I have my many projects. My latest being vinyl cutting. It has been fun, and somewhat profitable. If there is anything that anyone wants done, let me know. I also drive car pools.....it seems all day, everyday. Seth and I teach the CTR 5 and 6 year old class in church, and we have the sweetest class. We are partial to that Andrew Myers boy that is in our class..... Last Spring I had the great and amazing opportunity to be in John Bidwell's final BYU-I show. He was directing his favorite play, The Rainmaker by N Richard Nash. John had directed it in 1993, and when I saw the show, the part of Lizzie Curry became a dream role. So when I heard he was going to direct that as his last show, AND had asked my dad to come out of retirement to design the set (which he had done for John in 1993, and is one of my favorite sets he had done) I was determined to take out anyone in my way to get the part. Gratefully I wasn't required to go to such dramatic lengths. It was such an amazing experience and we had the best cast. I have never worked so hard, or been pushed out of my comfort zone so far, as with this part. But like with most things, the things that come the hardest, are also the things that are most worth it. It was John's final show, with an amazing set that my dad designed, and, I was blessed to be in it. I got to fulfill my dream of playing Lizzie, and she is easily one of my favorite roles and The Rainmaker one of my favorite plays. Seth was so supportive and encouraging. I couldn't have done it without him. And I feel especially blessed to have someone, that knew how much this show and part meant to me, and I think was more excited for me do get the part, than I was. I am so grateful to him!!!! What an amazing husband I have!!! Now that that is over, I am doing the mom thing and trying to start getting all the things talked about in that Yellow Ribbon meeting taken care of. Gratefully some we already had covered, because it is exhausting. I am blessed to stay home and take care of my family. I love it and wouldn't trade it for anything.

Andrew is 6 and in 1st grade!!! It is so amazing how fast time flies! He is reading on a fourth grade level, and picks up on things so fast, it's hard to keep up with him so he doesn't get bored and lose interest. He is taking piano lessons, and tae kwon do. He LOVES piano, and has a love/hate relationship with tae kwon do. It depends on the day. He is a good example to Calvin and teaches him everything.......including everything Star Wars. My boys are obsessed with it. More so Calvin I think, but it is Attack of the Clones at our house. We are swarmed with clones. Clone costumes, helmets, masks, action figures, guns, coloring books, story books, posters, cartoons, Lego's, cards,......you name it, we got it. It is eat, breathe, sleep clones and Star Wars.

Calvin just turned 3 a few weeks ago, and lives up to his name. He even carries a stripped kitty around with him, and can't go without. His love for Star Wars is only to be matched by his love for his stripped kitty and his "silky" (a blanket that is fuzzy on one side and satin on the other) He broke his right arm last Jan. Ironically only 2 hours after Seth left for a drill, he fell and cried so hard (something that he rarely does) that I knew something was wrong I just didn't know what. When I tried putting his pj's on, and took hold of his arm, he screamed in pain, and I knew. I texted Seth a picture of a tired and delirious Calvin with his arm in a cast. He texted back asking if the picture was real. (It did look like Calvin had on a paper towel roll on his arm) Only 2 weeks later, I left for Cali to help my sister with her kids, and the night I left I got a text from Seth; A picture of Calvin in a hospital room with BOTH arms cast. He was climbing up the bunk beds in the dark and fell. He knew what happened and told Seth "Ahm Bowken." Sure enough, my dad ran over to sit with a sleeping Andrew (bless my wonderful parents) so Seth could take Calvin to the ER. I texted back asking if the picture were real. It just didn't seem possible. I had been gone for 6 hours. When the first cast came off 6 weeks later, Calvin went through withdrawals, and would put socks on his hand and arm. He would even choose socks the color of the previous of current cast. It went on for about 3 weeks after the second cast was removed. The following summer, I had put him to bed and after going in a few times to settle him and Andrew down, laid down on the couch and started dozing. I awoke suddenly to someone trying to get in the front door, but it was locked. Wondering who in the world would be trying to get in the house without knocking, I got up to look, and saw a small figure going down the steps and turning like he was going for the side door. I opened it to find Calvin, in his pj's in the pitch black running around. He had climbed out his window, and had managed to climb over the deep window well just below it, and had been running around for I don't know how long outside. Calvin still climbs everything, and bounces off the walls, and is into everything. He sees every attempt to keep him out of things, as a challenge. I have laid down the gauntlet, and he will divide and conquer. He is a ball of energy. He is going to preschool and his best friend and parter in crime is our neighbor across the street Kyler. There is usually mischief going on at some point with them. I don't need things like Brain Age to keep my mind sharp. All the conspiracies my boys come up with keep me on my toes. I love it.

So I am determined to be better at this. So stay tuned to more Misadventures of the Myers Mob.